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By modefor, Jul 9 2018 12:11PM

Some people spend over two years planning their wedding. It should be a happy time, making memories, personalising your special day and perfecting your plans. For some people though, planning a wedding can be stressful, getting caught up in the ‘should’ and ‘shouldn’t’ of wedding etiquette and unnecessary traditions.


Here at Mode For... we believe all of the planning stages of a wedding should be just as much fun as the day itself. We believe in stress free weddings and we are here to help you through the planning process.


We especially love DIY weddings! It means you really get to put your own stamp on a venue and make a wedding truly reflect your style and ideas. We believe, the best bit about a DIY wedding is the set-up before the big day. It’s so much fun to be a part of - seeing plans come together is pure magic! We have learnt a few things over the years and here are our top tips for making wedding set up just as much fun as the wedding day...


1. Play some music! - You need your favourite music on whilst your decorating your venue! It fills your team workers with enthusiasm and sets a great tone for the day.


2. Provide food & drinks - You will spend most of the day before the wedding setting-up and everyone will need lots of energy, make sure you feed your team of workers supplying them with endless cups of tea (or prosecco!).


3. Set out clear job roles - The key to DIY wedding set up is planning and team work. Spend some time allocating jobs before you start setting up, it will be so much quicker and less stressful if everyone knows what their job role is. Who’s responsible for setting out chairs? or hanging the bunting? You get the idea.


4. Have a deadline - The night before your wedding should be free of stress, make sure you set a time to finish. We think sitting back with a glass of wine by 6pm is perfect and we aim to help all our brides and grooms achieve this. It’s more important to enjoy your wedding day than stay up all night folding napkins!


5. Hire a Wedding Co-ordinator - Just because you can do everything yourself, doesn’t mean you should. Sometimes asking for help is ok and it means less stress and more fun. Talk to us today about how a wedding co-ordinator can help bring your DIY wedding to life !


Have you got any tips you could share with a bride and groom?


What did you do to make your wedding set-up fun?


Much Love

Laura xx



By modefor, Jun 27 2018 08:00AM

Photo (c) Capture the Love
Photo (c) Capture the Love

It’s so overwhelming…

I don’t know where to start…

Everyone has an opinion about how our wedding should be…

I just want to elope and leave everyone behind…

I’m not even looking forward to my wedding anymore…

I don’t want my family there…

I’m scared of everyone looking at me and being centre of attention…


Any of these statements ring true with you?


These are real statements I’ve heard from brides and grooms who are trying to plan their own wedding and I find it heart-breaking that anyone should feel that way (though I do like the sound and idea of a romantic elopement!).


Planning a wedding should be something that brings happiness; where you can enjoy the process as much as the end result.


The whole planning process should be filled with fun, happiness, inspiration, creativity and discovery. But I know it’s sometimes so hard to overcome the ‘overwhelm.’


Feeling overwhelmed can happen to any of us; it’s an emotion that can very easily take a grasp of us and invite its friends, anxiety, misery and even sometimes depression to the party. So, remember you’re the host of both parties… the one in your head with all your emotions and your wedding. Did you watch that movie ‘Inside Out?’ You need to choose to override ‘overwhelm.’


My advice is to take it step by step. First of all, make a point to be strong in your stance that the wedding is about you and your partner, no-one else; it should be a privilege for anyone else to be involved, not a done deal that parents, Grandparents, family of friends take control, irrespective of who is footing the bill. This is about you as a couple and you only; end of.


Decide things together as a couple; close your eyes and imagine your day, how it feels, sounds, tastes and looks and keep this visualisation strong when you’re planning. Visualise yourself at your wedding looking and feeling happy and when wedding planning starts to overwhelm take a moment to bring this visualisation to the forefront of your memory. This is a great technique for not only coping with overwhelm but deciding on elements of your special day. Don’t just rely on Pinterest and magazines, use the power of visualisation to bring your own wedding to life.


If you can bring the visualisation along with its friends creativity, excitement and happiness to the party in your head, you are going to start to love the wedding planning process.


I’ll be focussing more on controlling anxiety, nerves and overwhelm over a series of blogs and articles dedicated to the Calm Bride and in my group #theweddingfixer at www.facebook.com/groups/theweddingfixer so why not join me and share your experiences.


Much Love

Tabby xxx


AKA #theweddingfixer



By modefor, Jun 20 2018 08:28AM

It’s always important to work with the best suppliers you can for your wedding and most of all, compatibility is key.


But where do you find fabulous businesses? For me, I put a lot of weight on recommendation. If someone I trust, love and respect trusts a business enough to recommend them then I think this means a lot.


I’m always very careful of the businesses I recommend to people too and I have to have worked with them, seen them in action and seen them deliver top quality customer service and value to my clients.

With that in mind, here are five top Yorkshire wedding businesses.


Photography by Kathryn Widdowson

Not only are Kathryn’s photos amazing, she is one of the most delightful people I know and is fabulous to not only work with, but her calming and relaxed nature with couples is truly outstanding and this trust and rapport she builds is what makes her photos all the more special.


The Volkswagen Wedding Co

Herman the photobooth is my favourite! He’s quirky, fun and never fails to grab attention at weddings and events. The service and value that the Volkswagen Wedding Co. offers is also second to none. Efficient, professional and always with a smile and fun; that’s why we love them.


Carly & The Kicks

Every party needs entertainment and Carly Wood and her fabulous band are absolutely superb. Whether it’s an acoustic set or the full band, this girl knows how to get your party going and what’s more, honestly and truly one of the loveliest and most fun people I’ve ever met.


The Arches @ Dean Clough

Yes, no shame, I’m totally biased as we at Mode for… are the exclusive wedding co-ordinators (don’t worry, I’m not shameless enough to put Mode for… in my top 5 wedding businesses, but you know we are outright the best for relaxed, calm, mindful, professional, happy and fun wedding planning and co-ordination, don’t you?!) but this venue is the absolute bee’s knees. Industrial, perfect, stunning and as relaxed as they come with amazing catering from Eat Me – Drink Me and a great team of staff to make your wedding truly memorable.


Eat Me – Drink Me

Because now we’ve got the venue, music, photographer and fun we need some amazing food. Eat Me – Drink Me are superb event caterers wherever your wedding is being held and whether it’s a tipi in a field, a barn, industrial venue or country house they have the perfect menu, stunning food and excellent team of staff to deliver your perfect wedding food. Their passion is catering for very important dates, and your wedding is truly important to them.


So, there’s my quick round up of why these five make it into the top five. Go and check them out.


Much Love

Tabby xxx


#theweddingfixer

Join my free wedding planning group at: www.facebook.com/groups/theweddingfixer



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